I recently moved two states away to help my sister take care of my father who has Parkinsons Disease! Unfortanately my dad has declined so much to be taken care of at home. In fact he is dieing!! My sister said I could stay here for house cleaning but I am afraid that I may not live up to her standards, thus getting angry and kicking me out. She is the only family member I have left that is not dieing. I am suppose to be going back to school on the 29th of this month for six weeks to be a CNA! I may be worry ing for nothing because she says she is glad that I am here because she was always worried about me and my son. Question1:So should I try to go back to my home state to avoid be at the mercy of her temper or trust that she follow through with her word? I feel horrible for feeling this way because she has been pretty nice to me since I have been here for the most part. We use to fight so much that we fought in our sleep. (True story) Do I keep these fears to myself and do my best to help her. Bare in mind I my son is much happier here and I like it here. Plus I have nowhere to go! The only family member I have back home is my brother who is dieing of cancer.
Ok question 2: My son was doing very poor at his old school. He even tried to run away from school one day! Since he has been here for two months he actually has started to read where as he was not reading at all at his old school. He is way behind still and will fail the second grade. I dont know how to break this news to him!! With all that has been going on he has serious anger issues. I am looking for a therapist for us both. So how do break this news to him? Maybe I am just having a moment of weakness but if could get some support here I would love that!!