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Are all labels bad?

Posted by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 10:52 AM
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I here a lot of people on here saying they don't like labels. They don't like putting them on themselves and they don't like others put them on them. I got to thinking about it and aren't some labels okay. I mean I don't see how being labeled as a mom or a wife is so bad. You ARE a mom and a wife (for those that are married). Now I agree it's wrong if someone puts 'just' in front of it like you are "just" a mom or "just" a wife. Because you ARE much more than that of course.

Are all labels bad?


Posted by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 10:52 AM
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DixieL
by Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 7:36 PM

I don't belive they are It depends on what labels are put on you

LivinDeadGurl
by on Jun. 28, 2012 at 8:12 PM
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Quoting CoeyG:

I can't listen to that without thinking of the show Weeds now.

letstalk747
by Silver Member on Jun. 28, 2012 at 8:40 PM

no , not all

Charizma77
by Carissa on Jun. 28, 2012 at 8:50 PM
Nah, I don't think so
Charli627
by Charli on Jun. 28, 2012 at 10:42 PM
I don't think so
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Kris_PBG
by Member on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:26 AM

Labels are also how children with special needs qualify and receive very important services that make a huge difference in their school experience.

The label serves a purpose - it is not just to label kids for the sake of labeling them.

Quoting CoeyG:


Quoting HTMommy:

I thought you were going to talk about food labels....idk....but then again...I really don't care. In my eyes labels are for highschool and I may be a younger mom and look like a 12 yr old but I'm a grown a** woman and NOT in highschool that needs to be concerned with labels kwim?

Schools are forever trying to label kids.  This one is Autistic, that one has ADHD, anouther is ODD, that one has Athma, he is deaf she has a speach problem, he is a slow reader, she picks it up quickly, numbers confuse her, he should be in calculus.   Whatever happend to children being children rather than labels   


CoeyG
by Colleen on Jun. 29, 2012 at 12:52 PM


Quoting LivinDeadGurl:


Quoting CoeyG:

I can't listen to that without thinking of the show Weeds now.

LOL I know what you mean, however this song was around when I was a kid...I think I was about 8...goodness that was 50 years ago!

earthangel1967
by on Jun. 29, 2012 at 5:29 PM
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No I dont think they are all bad and what is more important is to remember that we are all more than any one label ... but I think in some cases they can serve helpful purposes

 YVONNE

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