opinion?

[Jessicamarquez]

SO told me tonight I could get a full eight hours! Guess whose awake doing the night shift me!!!! I appreciate the nap he let me get at the beginning of the night and its not that I don't want to take care of the baby but, I need to take care of myself too don't I? Feeling selfish a little disappointed blah what do you think?

[jobberwocky]

Wake him up and say. Thank you for giving me the chance to sleep. Can you please go take care of the baby so I can get that sleep?

[christineT79]

I understand. I haven had a single night off in over 5 months straight. My hubby dosnt really help me at all with the baby. He works alot so when he's home he's usually sleeping. It sucks.

[Jessicamarquez]

I'm in the same boat and I feel guilty asking for help since he has been at work but his shift is 12 and ours is around the clock

Quoting christineT79:

I understand. I haven had a single night off in over 5 months straight. My hubby dosnt really help me at all with the baby. He works alot so when he's home he's usually sleeping. It sucks.

[KelliansMom]

hubby and I set up a schedule so we knew who got what on what days ..if he wasnt working the next day he got the nightly duties 

[christineT79]

 

Quoting Jessicamarquez:

I'm in the same boat and I feel guilty asking for help since he has been at work but his shift is 12 and ours is around the clock

Quoting christineT79:

I understand. I haven had a single night off in over 5 months straight. My hubby dosnt really help me at all with the baby. He works alot so when he's home he's usually sleeping. It sucks.

That's how I feel too. My hubby works alot & I'm a SAHM so I feel like the baby is my job, it just sucks that it's 24/7. Plus I breastfeed so he can't feed the baby so I can sleep or take a break. There's really no way around it :(

 

[Jessicamarquez]

I pumped for a short while now she's on formula because my milk supply just crashed and couldn't get it flowing. So still couldn't stay up. Kudos to breastfeeding wish I had your boobies lol

Quoting christineT79:

 

Quoting Jessicamarquez:

I'm in the same boat and I feel guilty asking for help since he has been at work but his shift is 12 and ours is around the clock

Quoting christineT79:

I understand. I haven had a single night off in over 5 months straight. My hubby dosnt really help me at all with the baby. He works alot so when he's home he's usually sleeping. It sucks.

That's how I feel too. My hubby works alot & I'm a SAHM so I feel like the baby is my job, it just sucks that it's 24/7. Plus I breastfeed so he can't feed the baby so I can sleep or take a break. There's really no way around it :(

 

[Jessicamarquez]

That's what we agreed on since today is his day off.. But he is still asleep lol glad he's getting sleep >.<

Quoting KelliansMom:

hubby and I set up a schedule so we knew who got what on what days ..if he wasnt working the next day he got the nightly duties 

[KelliansMom]

I was mean and would wake him up if it wasn't his day to sleep in or if he had agreed to get up

Quoting Jessicamarquez:

That's what we agreed on since today is his day off.. But he is still asleep lol glad he's getting sleep >.<

Quoting KelliansMom:

hubby and I set up a schedule so we knew who got what on what days ..if he wasnt working the next day he got the nightly duties 

[christineT79]

 

Quoting Jessicamarquez:

I pumped for a short while now she's on formula because my milk supply just crashed and couldn't get it flowing. So still couldn't stay up. Kudos to breastfeeding wish I had your boobies lol

Quoting christineT79:

 

 

Quoting Jessicamarquez:

I'm in the same boat and I feel guilty asking for help since he has been at work but his shift is 12 and ours is around the clock

Quoting christineT79:

I understand. I haven had a single night off in over 5 months straight. My hubby dosnt really help me at all with the baby. He works alot so when he's home he's usually sleeping. It sucks.

That's how I feel too. My hubby works alot & I'm a SAHM so I feel like the baby is my job, it just sucks that it's 24/7. Plus I breastfeed so he can't feed the baby so I can sleep or take a break. There's really no way around it :(

 

 I've always had an over supply but I was really careful not to pump & ever give bottles. You have to be really careful in the begining months not to do things like that to keep your supply up. It's because of that that I can't get a break.

[cabrandy03]

Guys just don't get it.  I havn't had a full nights sleep in over 2 years lol.