Hi.. Have important question for the single mom/soon to be moms
Hello. Im Lauren. First time soon to be mother of a little girl. Im due 1/27/14. She is my everything already. But I have a problem. The father of my baby is a 21 year old kid who is making my life a living hell. He is a very angry person. I do not trust him with my child. Me and him both had a past of dealing with drugs. Of course I stopped living the high life when I got preg. He has not. I had to deal with withdraws and alot of hospital sleep overs but I made sure to put all of that behide me to become the best mother for my child. My doctors know my history I told them the truth and I did everything they told me to do to help me get over my drug problem. I have been clean for a long while and very happy with myself I won that war. I look at my unborn baby as she saved my life. But he has not changed one bit. He has not been around at all for my pregnancy. I have to beg him to hear details about his daughter. I have done everything for her. She already has everything a baby needs. Every dime I make and all my time goes into getting ready for this baby. He wants a D.N.A test and that is fine. But the problem I have is that I dont want him near my child at all. I dont want a D.N.A test because I dont want him to have any rights to her. His family is very dirty. They believe in things I dont want her around. They are hitler wannabes. Very evil dirty people That downgrades color people and anybody who is not like them. My question for the moms out here is can he make me do a D.N.A test even if a deney him as her father and ask no child care from him? Or how can I make him stay away? But I also dont wanna live with the regret of keeping her daddy away. I dont agree with mothers who do that because they get mad at the daddy's but I dont want her to be around that type of living or anger. He is also making me look like the bad one. Saying crazy rumors but as I said he is a kid himself. I think he does that to make his self feel better that he has not been around or check up on her. I do love him and all I ever wanted was for my baby to have her family But She comes first and if being away from him will make her have a better life thats what ill do. So please if there is anything I need to know please tell me what I should do. Thank you for taking the time out to read.