When you were pregnant, how did your dh/so behave?
With our first he couldn't do enough to help me, cleaning the house, laundry, dishes, you name it!! If I had a craving at 2am he ran to the store to get it!! With 2nd , not so much... he helped some but there was no runs to the store in the middle of the night for a craving. But that was ok cause with the 2nd I didn't really expect his help with everything.
With my two pregnacies the treatment was great.He will go out of his way to make sure that I was very comfortable at all times and being treated like a queen.
My hubby was great! He would rub my feet every day...even the days they didnt hurt! He went to EVERY doc appt with me and did the majority of the cleaning and laundry. He wouldn't even let me carry in groceries! Chris helped to the point it got frustrating cuz i felt helpless!! lol
Mine did NOTHING. At the time we were living with his Mom. I purchased ALL of my own maternity cloths went to ONLY TWO of my MANY sonograms ( I was high risk) I purchased about 98 percent of my OWN baby things I was expected to help clean out the shed in HOT texas weather get up on a step stool at 8 months pregnant to help clean the blinds and stuff I was also on my hands and knees scrubbing toilets and the floors His mom nor him every helped me. They just left the mess until i cleaned it up to avoid being yelled at. PLUS i worked a full time job driving 45 to an hour five days a week and his mom didnt work other than volunteer work a couple of days a week I never ever got any help carrying in the groceries let alone someone going to get them for me i got nothing but greif when i was tired or not feeling at my best So basicly my first pregnancy was very lonley and upsetting. He basicly abandoned me emotionally and physically. He still doesnt treat me the way he used to before i got pg with our daughter. But on the bright side I have a wonderful 16 month old daughter out of the deal =) I
Quoting m0_mommy: My hubby was great! He would rub my feet every day...even the days they didnt hurt! He went to EVERY doc appt with me and did the majority of the cleaning and laundry. He wouldn't even let me carry in groceries! Chris helped to the point it got frustrating cuz i felt helpless!! lol
When we found out very excited. He put up with a lot with me because I was sick throughout my whole pregnancy. He acted normal otherwise.
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