Just curious to see how others deal with it.
DH and I got married right out of highschool, but his first love (dated a couple years before we got together) proceeded to date his cousin (to stay close to DH or get back at him not sure which) and accidently have kids with him...so now she is stuck in the family. It is hell. She is at family functions...birthday parties, church every sunday etc. She is nice, but I see right through it and know she is nosey and keeps tabs on DH and his life.
I think the worst part though is that his family (who mind you couldn't STAND the girl when they were together) will talk crap about her around me and then be so nice to her face all the time. I'm sure they do the same to me.