ok so me and my husband have been together since i was 16 and he was 18 we got together 03,26,07 the day after i turned 16,found out on mothers day i was 5 weeks preg!got married on 10,31,07 had our first daughter 01,10,08! so we just had our second daughter 10,22,10 well a few days before i went into labor he started acting funny,wouldnt talk to me much and didnt want to spend time with me,so i went to the hospital by myself,he showed up 30mins before she was born!stayed there the whole day went home that night,never came back so when i went home he told me he was done he couldnt do it any more! :( he moved out,the day before he moved out he said we where still together but we need some space,that it has been almost 4 yrs he didnt want to give up!but that he didnt know what he wanted and that stuff needed to change and us having time apart was the other thing we hadnt tryed to fix things!so he wont stay the night,his place is in no way ready for me and the kids to stay the night there and he hates talking on the phone so we talk for like 10 mins and then listen to each other breath.he lives 45 mins away so i only get to see him for an hour before he has clinical cause there 10 mns away from my house,hes staying with his mom and me and the kids live with my mom,step dad,and grandma!which he does not like!but he told everyone that i need to get my stuff together that its been long enough!(i need my ged but never had a ride or taking care of kids blah blah)so my moms been taking me and im doing good but i just had a baby so my mom wants me to wait 6 weeks and he feels i should have went back two weeks after i had her,but it sucks and i cant get a straight answer out of him why he left and when hes comeing home or where getting our own place!his mom said i cant move in till im done with school,which is fine cause i dont like her and i dont want to move in with her!!but he doesnt realy want to talk about any of it!!hows that going to fix anything??i hate this and i miss my husband and want him home!!