Hi, I think he just file today for a divorced. At times I feel that it's for the better but then other times I feel like trying and giving in. He has a drinking problem, not to the extreme that he cannot control it but it will be 3-12 days in a row of steady drinking. Not to the point that he can funtion but will call off work and basically stay home and to himself and drink. It hurts me to see him this way but nothing has work. He doen't want to seek professional help. To me, it's just another addiction and I don't like it. Now, I found myself, 47yeas old, and soon single. It scares me to death, just wondering if it is a mistake to let him go. 6 1/2 years gone.