He loves me "too much" are you kidding me?? (Maybe a vent)
I'll try to make this short.
SO and I have been together over 1 1/2 years. I still haven't met his family. I've only met his kids a couple of times. We got pregnant back in July, but miscarried in September. We are supposed to be working on finally moving in together (that idea has been going on since March, but still has yet to happen).
Sure, we've had our ups and downs, but he said something yesterday that pissed me off. He doesn't help me with my finances. He may buy a bag of dog food, or put $10 in my gas tank, but that's about it. He does not contribute at all to my bills. 2 weeks ago, my cable tv was interrupted because I was late on the bill. No help from him. Earlier this week, my cell phone was off for 3 days because I was waiting on my check that didn't hit till toward the later part of the week. I got it turned back on yesterday, again without his help. I found out that he had been calling the cell phone once or twice a day to see if I might have gotten it paid and turned back on.
When I got into it with him, because I felt it was sneaky or untrusting (why would I not tell him my phone was back on? I don't understand why he would even check it!) he said "maybe I love you too much" because he doesn't like having to go all day without at least getting to talk to me at lunch time.
If he loved me so much, wouldn't he step up and help me out? Wouldn't he get moved in? Wouldn't I meet his family?
What's your take????