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sex drive

Posted by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 4:42 PM
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 Is it weird that my husband has no sex drive? Like if we had sex once a month he would be happy with that. Its like hes never wants to. Hes only 21. Ive never met a man that young that doesnt want it more. I want sex at least every other day but he never seems to. Is that weird that he doesnt?

by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 4:42 PM
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jenbscott
by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 5:25 PM
Sounds weird to me. Only two things are coming to mind. 1.) It's a medical condition or 2.) Somethings fishy...

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kjbugsmom1517
by Bronze Member on Nov. 23, 2010 at 5:52 PM

 my husband has a lowish drive too... we can go a month or more without it..

emore626
by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 6:12 PM
Aww, that's usually me! Sorry I got nothing :(
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Rach7224
by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 6:13 PM


Quoting jenbscott:

 Only two things are coming to mind. 1.) It's a medical condition or 2.) Somethings fishy...


MSully3
by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 6:24 PM


Quoting Rach7224:



Quoting jenbscott:

 Only two things are coming to mind. 1.) It's a medical condition or 2.) Somethings fishy...



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ShannaBee
by Platinum Member on Nov. 23, 2010 at 7:50 PM
It can be more common in today's society with all the high levels of stress going on. Some people are born with a low sex drive. Many things can also affect our libido. Talk to him to target why he may not be in the mood as often as you.
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alisha34886
by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 10:10 PM

At his age it does seem weird.I dated a man who was 40 yrs old and was the samme way.I thought there was somthing wrong with him cause I've never met a guy with no sex drive.I thought he was cheating on me or had no desire for me.He did take meds for high blood pressure and high cholestral.That can lower mens sex drive too.I asked him has he always been this way and he says no.He said when he was younger he would screw anything that bent over.lol But he never cheated on me.I had to beg for sex or make the first move.I got tired of it and moved on.

orange4agua72
by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 10:16 PM

 Does he have a ED problem? Maybe he's just self conscious about it....

Most men don't lose there sex drive (or have it lowered) until about age 24 or 25. Most women don't have it lowered til, sometimes even age 40.

Just try toMAKE him do it. Is he telling you "NO"? Because the MORE he does it, the higher his sex drive will get, he's obviously just NOT used to having it all the time (no offense to you ment at ALL)

 

orange4agua72
by on Nov. 23, 2010 at 10:17 PM

 

Quoting jenbscott:

Sounds weird to me. Only two things are coming to mind. 1.) It's a medical condition or 2.) Somethings fishy...

 I agree with THIS as well... is he watching PORN all the time maybe? or something like that? Maybe has an addiction and takes care of it himself?

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