How do u do it?? We have 3 kids, and my parents are the only ones we're going to see this holiday season since his family is going on a cruise.. Luckies.. But my parents want me to make an effort to see both sides.. My mom's and dad's side.. But we also have our own plans for our christmas with the kids, and hubby's brother who has a little boy of his own when he's off work. My mom's side is easy bc they have christmas eve and live in the same town as my mom so we can make it an overnight thing.. But my dad's side lives further away and they don't do the holiday at the same time bc ppl have to be off work.. ALSO there's the gifts.. Idk how we are going to afford gifts for everybody we're supposed to buy for on my mom's side bc we're buying our christmas too.. Should I bother worrying about extended family or no??