we were separated for 3 weeks, we both consulted attorneys and we both have secret bank accounts, and he made the decision friday, but sunday he texted his girl.. last night was his first night back, on the couch. I'm torn, i feel like he is trying to play me, like he thinks he can keep his girlfriend or something, idk.. we havent had that talk yet, im so nervous to bring it up.. we just had a very intense clothes on make out. those hugs and kisses were very intense, but i honestly cant tell if it is because of me or because hes horny. He cant tell me he loves me yet, until he can, and until he kicks his girl to the curb, hes not getting any sex i know, but im just afraid to bring her up, so we can move on... im torn..
we had a talk, the talk. he said they have some "unfinished business" that he needs to take care of, that and tell her we are working it out... She has Just been diagnosed with chrones disease so i guess thats why hes letting her go slow..? doesnt want to overwhelm her with bad news..? He kept saying "I'm here now. I'm here. that should tell you something. I'm here now." weve been married for 3.5 years, after dating for 2 by the way.