Ok so I just hate dating at this point...Ive been on dates w some really nice guys that just werent right for me and Ive been on a couple of horrible dates lol. I know Ive made some poor decisions too! I did date one man for several months that didnt work out bc the ex wanted to get back.
I went on a date with a guy last Friday after talking with him for about two weeks and lots of flirting. ALso for one week every morning we alternated he would send me a cute morning text or I would sendhim one) It got to the point where it was like who was going to kiss who first when we saw each other lol. So we went out to a bar to see a friends band and a couple of my friends were there we had fun it was great my friends liked him and he actually seems like a stand up guy (which is rare). Unfortunately, booze got the better of me and we wound up at my place having sex. It was great and all and I do regret it bc that is really not me to have sex w someone on a first date or have one night stands. But in all honesty it did feel kind of right too. SO we talk on the phone or on facebook chat. Tuesday we went out to dinner which was very nice and joked that that should've been our first date. When Im on FB I dont IM him first he IM's me and he always does. I sent a cute morning text on Tues and he didnt respond although we went out that night... He didnt send anything yesterday or this morning and neither did I.
He seems interested, if we chat and I say call me later he does but I just feel like its getting kind of gamey. I asked him if he wanted to go see the tree in NYC next Friday and first he said he's not sure yet (not sure what that meant) and then when we were chatting the other night I asked him again and I didnt get an answer.
I know a hint when I see one, but Im receiving mixed signals bc the same time he's ignoring that its talking about doing something else in the future...WTF.
LOL...advice...what should I do/say...is there something I should maybe say when we chat online tonight?