Do You Think Men Still Thinks about Sex with Mistress
I've often wondered if husbands/boyfriends still think about the sex they had with the mistress if you have been cheated on. Even if he is not cheating physically anymore do you think that men still crave something that his mistress did to him?
I usually here that when men cheat the "other woman" gives him some thing that he hasn't tried @ home. What do you think?????
my dh has never cheated on me. but i hear that my ex boyfriend still thinks about me. he even called my name out instead of his wife's in bed!! lol...that info came from his sister...who heard it directly from the wife. so i know it has to be true. he cheated and left me for the other woman. they are now getting a divorce.
My hubby did cheat, and he probably won't admit to still thinking about her if I asked, but like someone else said, he cheated because I was refusing him oral sex and she was more than willing to hit her knees. He did tell me that it started because of that, but it got old after awhile, and I give better "head" than she did anyway. lol O- and he did try anal sex with her because I flat out refuse that and he said he didn't see the big deal about it, he didn't like it.
Moral of this little story, I give him oral and he hasn't cheated since.
The thought is very hurtful to me. Because with thought comes the wishes and then the desire to act upon it. Hence the cheating. Even when wives do give the husbands everything in bed they still cheat. The thrill of being with a different person @ the expense of the marriage.
Knowing would make me unhappy. But I absolutely refuse to give that affair anymore power over my marriage than it already had....He may think about it but I won't spend another second doing so too.
When you met your dh/so?
- Rachelbhappy
on Dec. 15, 2010 at 6:48 PM