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CafeMom Poll #2: Could your marriage survive?

Posted by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:01 PM
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Question: Do you think your marriage could survive if your partner had an affair that included making love to another person in your bed?

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Definitely not

Unlikely

Possibly

Yes


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by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:01 PM
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ShannaBee
by Platinum Member on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:07 PM
I think a marriage can survive infedelity. Both partners must be willing to make it work. DH and I dated as teens in '05. He cheated on me. I forgave him but we later broke up for other reasons. Then we later reconciled and got married. We talked it over and got closure. I don't hold it over his head but I do have some trust issues but I am open and forthcoming and he is open and honest with me as well. Nothing is a secret. And we are happy and have a healthy relationship.
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3rdTimeJoining
by Bronze Member on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:10 PM

Highly unlikely. He's already hidden something from me before, I'm not sure I'd be willing to give him a third chance.

jenbscott
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:12 PM
Survive? After he has sex with another woman in MY bed? Please. I'd burn the bed...and them too if they were still in it.
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_Tam_
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:17 PM

I'd recommend that both of us get counseling and try to work things out.  If it happens again, my daughter and I are gone.

coopersmom31306
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:17 PM

Not a chance, there's no way I could trust him ever again and the stress of that alone would be unbearable for me.  He'd be kicked to the curb without a second thought.

Godblessedmex4
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:18 PM
Nope no way in heck!!! God only gives ONE reason in the Bible for Divorce to be acceptable and that is infidelity, there is a reason for that. Infidelity breaks the bond of marriage, not only that, I don't want to be married to someone who could take our commitment so lightly. That's my opinion on the subject!
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LCG83
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:18 PM
At this point no way but part of me wishes he would so I would have a real concrete reason to leave.
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onefootcutiepie
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:18 PM

 That would be REALLY tough.... I DO think it's possible, yes.

tiddliwinks
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:19 PM


Quoting onefootcutiepie:

 That would be REALLY tough.... I DO think it's possible, yes.


katesager
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:19 PM

This.

Quoting jenbscott:

Survive? After he has sex with another woman in MY bed? Please. I'd burn the bed...and them too if they were still in it.


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