When it comes to affairs, does location matter?

[Cafe Becky]

If your husband had an affair, would the location of the affair impact your perception of the betrayal and potential for reconciliation?

Why or why not?

Plus: Take our other polls:

Poll #1: Outside the home

Poll #2: In your bed

[ShannaBee]

What do you mean by location? Like where sex occured such as at work with a coworker? Yeah it would make me uncomfortable if he still worked around the woman he had an affair with as I would still feel threatened.

[LarissaLopeman]

It doesn't matter where or with who it would be over. I have been cheated on to many times. I can't be hurt again and let it go. It's a long story but we would be over.

[35yoamom]

LOL This question was asked of cheating men... They all said, location means nothing to them. The only reason that one might chose tehir home in their marital bed is because it was conveinient.  But for me... YES!  You mean to tell me that you thought so little of us that you could sleep woth another woman in front of pictures of our children...

And then how nasty is that female... I wouldnt call her a lady or a woman... Just a female species.

[Whitney0623]

Betrayal is betrayal...But I think there is potential for reconciliation in an situation...now if it happens more than once...not so much but ALL marriges are worth a second chance.

[Whitney0623]

My husband still works with the woman he had an afair with and it annoys me but I am learning to trust him again. I think i will always have the urge to kill her everytime i hear her name or see her. lol

[amy31308]

I would be crushed if my husband brought another woman into our house and our bed.

But it wouldnt matter in the end...  I would never heal from a cheating husband.

[KatrinaEaton]

Yeah it would. But just the fact he had an affair would make it impossible for me to forgive him.

[dez0717]

 It would be over if he had an affair, but if it occured in OUR bed, then I would probably get spiteful. B/C to me its bad enough you are having one but our bed is just saying I mean nothing to you at all.

[Nita_friend]

Nope. An affair is an affair. No matter when, where, or how. We made vows to forsake all others. We both know that if we were to break that vow - we are agreeing to live separate lives from that point on.

[s0cc3r_m0m]

I think that any cheating would be unacceptable for me.