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Could Your Marriage Survive? Take Our Polls!

Posted by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:12 PM
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We just put up a series of polls about whether your marriage could survive after an affair. Tell us what you think here:

Poll #1: Outside the home

Poll #2: In your bed

Poll #3: Does location matter?

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by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 4:12 PM
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NevadaSky
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 6:19 PM

I truly don't care where the affair happened.   If it happened I'd be gone, period!

BonitaM
by Ruby Member on Dec. 16, 2010 at 6:21 PM
I agree with NevadaSky. I'd be gone!
bellaamore
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 6:25 PM

Sex is sex... many times for a man, it means nothing more than that... My marriage means to much to me!

NevadaSky
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 6:32 PM

My marriage means alot to me too!!! I am married to my best friend!!!  Been married 32 yrs. 

2 reasons - that would put a halt to my marriage (even this far in) - Abuse or Affair.


BonitaM
by Ruby Member on Dec. 16, 2010 at 6:38 PM


Quoting NevadaSky:

My marriage means alot to me too!!! I am married to my best friend!!!  Been married 32 yrs. 

2 reasons - that would put a halt to my marriage (even this far in) - Abuse or Affair.


Same goes for me.  I love my husband with everything in me.  Those are the only two reasons I would ever leave him.  We've only been married 9 years but we've been to hell and back together and neither of us has been abusive or has cheated.  There's no excuse for either.

babybutastink
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 7:19 PM

I dont think I could get over being cheated on.  How would you ever trust someone again?  So regardless of when or where it happened if it did it would be over.

mitzicross
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 7:22 PM

A lot would depend on the circumstances of the affair, and how it ended, or if it did.  I would not tolerate more than one...but, I can understand that everyone is human and work out a one time mistake.  Even if it is more than a casual affair.  If my husband thought he were in love with someone else, and then came to his senses...I could still work it out.  Again...Once.  It wouldn't be pretty, though.  I think I would have to be a mess for a while.  Peace to all...tsk tsk

wilesmomma
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 7:23 PM


Quoting NevadaSky:

I truly don't care where the affair happened.   If it happened I'd be gone, period!

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mrssniffles
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 7:43 PM

 I honestly don't know, I have been married to the same man since I was 17, he's the only man I've known, if he had an affair I think it would kill me... I honestly love him, I couldn't do that to our life.

funwit5
by on Dec. 16, 2010 at 7:51 PM
My husband has cheated on me ;( I let town we seperated for 6 months but got back together now were stronger then ever I know our bond is stronger "fool me once shame on u fool me twice shame on me"
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