Ive been married almost 2 months now but with my husband for almost 5 years. We have 2 kids so im a SAHM. im the 5 years ive been with him i have NEVER used his money to buy anything for myself that was not needed. I have not worked in about 3 years and ive bought maybe 3 pairs of pants and some shoes in that time.
I dont like to spend the money he works hard for when i sit at home all day with the kids. i feel weird asking if we can rent movies or go out to eat. its his money and i dont want to waste it on stuff for me i feel selfish.
he always tells me its our money and to buy something for myself but i cant. Ill buy the kids stuff like toys or whatever or get him stuff but not for me! Anyone else? or am i alone?