My hubby and I have been married for 7 years. Three weeks after we were married he went to Iraq. When he came home he was a completely different person than the man I married. Things were fine for a while till I got a job. I started thinking I was having feelings for someone at work because he treated me better than my husband. I didn't have an affair with him, he was only a friend. But ever since then, things have gotten worse. When we fight he tells me to pack my stuff and get out. I don't want to go in to all the detail right now but I think he might be verbally and emotionally abusive. He is obsessed with having a threesome. He is very aggressive. I feel that he has no bond with our son who's 7 so he is constantly yelling at him. Sorry if this is rambling, I need to get some stuff out there I guess. Anyway, even though things aren't bad all the time, I still have "dreams" of being with someone else. He is the only man I have ever been with and I don't want him to be the last. I don't feel right now that I want to leave, there are good things too, but why am I not happy with being with him forever? that's why I married him. Do people really fall out of love? Am I just in love with the thought of being with someone new and exciting? If anyone has any thoughts on this i would be happy to hear them!