WHY DID I GET MARRIED?

[bossladycakes]

HELLO! I'M BOSSLADY CAKE'S I HAVE BEEN  MARRIED COME  DEC, 28TH 6 YRS TOGETHER 13 YRS. ALL I HAVE BEEN ASKING MYSELF LATELY IS WHY DID I GET MARRIED?

[MrsTantaros]

I have been noticing a lot of relationships going down hill lately. I hope all is ok with you! Is it just bordom?

[KristyKat]

Sometimes marriages get in a funk, and that's okay.  Look at the man you married.  Remember what made you fall in love with him.  Talk TO HIM.  Communication.  Be raw with him.  Ask him how he feels about things too, and what can be done to freshen things up.  Write him a love note.  Women, just as men, are responsible in keeping romance alive.  It does not have to feel like that.

[angelofmysoul84]

I've noticed that too, and I'm wondering if it isn't also just the daily stresses that are increasing lately. DH and I have hit that point as well, in Jan we'll have been together for 7 years. It's hard, but we really work at it. Communicate our likes and dislikes, and point out things that could really be improved on.

[BeckieLea]

I agree with KristyKat. I like her advice.  

Quoting KristyKat:

Sometimes marriages get in a funk, and that's okay.  Look at the man you married.  Remember what made you fall in love with him.  Talk TO HIM.  Communication.  Be raw with him.  Ask him how he feels about things too, and what can be done to freshen things up.  Write him a love note.  Women, just as men, are responsible in keeping romance alive.  It does not have to feel like that.