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what would you do need help now

Posted by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:37 AM
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for about the last year or so my husband and i have been wlaking on egg shells we have been on two toatly different pages. He had an affair with my best friend well ex best friend not even 3 weeks ago then he has this porn fetish that absolutely drives me insane he is always comparing me to the girls he sees and now i find evidence that he is talking to his ex on the computer all the time and many other women at that i stay home with our two lil ones im not allowed to have friends i go no where i do nothing but take care of the kids cook clean and wash his clothes please someone help i dont know wht to do anymore.

by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:37 AM
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-Mattel-
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:38 AM

Leave...

mommy2karsyn
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:40 AM

He obviously has no respect for you what so ever!  Grow some balls and leave his ass!!!

I don't mean to sound so harsh, but if there is one thing I can't stand...it's a cheater!!!!

DessC
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:41 AM

 I would leave!

beccajain2008
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:42 AM

 leave

redneckmama2
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:44 AM

kick his ass out of the house, change the locks, get an attorney, and divorce his ass!!!

lapcounter
by Gold Member on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:44 AM
Does he have a sex addiction? Not that that is an excuse, have you talked to him? I know what I would do personally but that is not always what another would want, good luck!
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akgraff
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:47 AM

leave definatly! he's going to hurt you more and more and cheat more and more and your children don't need to see any of that!! he doesn't treat you right and his heart isn't with yours anymore or he wouldn't be having fetish of porn and cheating and talking to his ex. Also he's controlling you by not letting you have friends over. Slowly he'll begin to destroy who you are....you should get out now!!

susiemae
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:47 AM


Quoting -Mattel-:

Leave...


imamami05
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:51 AM
Agreed


Quoting mommy2karsyn:

He obviously has no respect for you what so ever!  Grow some balls and leave his ass!!!


I don't mean to sound so harsh, but if there is one thing I can't stand...it's a cheater!!!!


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katiecat87
by on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:55 AM

I would leave. He has no respect for you and obviously has a sex addiction. I always tell my husband the first time he ever cheats on me will be the only time he cheats on me because once I find out I am gone. I see it this way, if he really loved me then he wouldn't need to be messing around. And I don't mind watchinga porn once in a while if it helps to put us in the mood but if he had a fetish I would give him an ultimatum. Good Luck.

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