for about the last year or so my husband and i have been wlaking on egg shells we have been on two toatly different pages. He had an affair with my best friend well ex best friend not even 3 weeks ago then he has this porn fetish that absolutely drives me insane he is always comparing me to the girls he sees and now i find evidence that he is talking to his ex on the computer all the time and many other women at that i stay home with our two lil ones im not allowed to have friends i go no where i do nothing but take care of the kids cook clean and wash his clothes please someone help i dont know wht to do anymore.
leave definatly! he's going to hurt you more and more and cheat more and more and your children don't need to see any of that!! he doesn't treat you right and his heart isn't with yours anymore or he wouldn't be having fetish of porn and cheating and talking to his ex. Also he's controlling you by not letting you have friends over. Slowly he'll begin to destroy who you are....you should get out now!!
Quoting mommy2karsyn:He obviously has no respect for you what so ever! Grow some balls and leave his ass!!!
I don't mean to sound so harsh, but if there is one thing I can't stand...it's a cheater!!!!
I would leave. He has no respect for you and obviously has a sex addiction. I always tell my husband the first time he ever cheats on me will be the only time he cheats on me because once I find out I am gone. I see it this way, if he really loved me then he wouldn't need to be messing around. And I don't mind watchinga porn once in a while if it helps to put us in the mood but if he had a fetish I would give him an ultimatum. Good Luck.
Its always gotta be about him. kinda long
- momoftwo646
on Dec. 27, 2010 at 9:37 AM