I am going to try and make an effort to get up every morning and get dressed (hair done and makeup) so that my hubby has something pretty to look at everyday. I think he deserves it and I think I could use the confident booster!!! I can't very well dress up b/c NONE of my pants fit me but I can at least do my hair and makeup!!! HUH we will see if it helps my self esteem or confidence!!! :)) WISH ME LUCK!!!!