feeling a little sad lately. a big anniversary for us is coming up in a few weeks. we really can't afford to do/get what i had hopped. Life has changed so much since a few years ago. we will be going out to dinner:) but I told my husband we shouldn't do gifts. i was gettingSO depressed about it though. he realized that and told me he already got me something and planned on giving me something anyway and that he doesn't need/want anything (he really means that by the way) i just don't know what to do. money has been SO tight worse than ever before, living pay check to pay check. our friends and family have no idea how difficult our situation is right now. i'm in middle of knitting something but its taking forever. maybe I can tell him i have something, but he will need to wait a bit longer bfor it??? what should I do? what should i get? with money we don't even have? I think our whole financial situation has just got me down. i try so hard not to have any expectations anymore b/c i don't deal too well with disappointment. sorry for rambling and thanks for giving me a place to vent. any ideas, thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated!