Ok.. Deep Breath... I LOVE my husband. I do. He's good to me and my girls and he works hard and blah blah blah, but I'm so mad at him this morning and need a little vent.
He's working nights now. Goes in 6pm-6am. He gets to sleep around 7am and wants to be awake by 1:30 to see the girls and I before work. This is an issue. He's terrible at waking up. When he works days it's no problem he sets his alarm says "Oh Shit I'm gonna be late" and boom he's up and getting ready. On nights he looks at the clock and figures eh.. I don't have to be in for another 5 hours, I've got time to sleep! When he finally gets up he's mad that he's slept so long and won't get anytime with the kids then he won't be able to sleep the next morning causing him to sleep later in the afternoon etc. So he says "wake me up at 1:30" ok. 1:30 rolls around and I get him up. He yawns stretches and says ok I'm up, and rolls over. 2.. Same thing.. 2:30.. 3... yesterday he slept in until 4:30!! I even let the girls jump on the bed and he didn't wake up, just kept getting increasingly angry we were dissrupting his sleep. He finally DOES get up and has the audacity to say "Why didn't you get me Up?! It's So late!" NO SHIT! I tried!! I'm not his mommy, I tried several times to get him awake but I'm not cooing a grown ass man until he wake up calm. Set you're friggin alarm! Yesterday after waking up at 4:30 in the afternoon he ends up passing out again before 11pm! (It was his day off) Wow! I can't sleep when he's not next to me. I've been getting to bed every night around 2, 2:30 in the morning, then getting up at 7 with the kids. Last night is the same story, except he wakes up at 4am and crawls into bed and his hugging all over me trying to get to sleep. This wakes me up, then since he slept all day he was restless and went back into the living room to watch tv. Gee.. Thanks for giving me a whole 2 hours of sleep just so you can decide you're not tired and leave the room again. As if the fact that I have to be his mommy alarm clock isn't bad enough..
This morning I get a fedex packaged slipped under the door. It's from the bank.. It says that our Bank is sick of not receiving whatever information they needed for our auto loan on the title, because of this they've raised the interest and monthly payment on the loan. Ladies I have gotten that notification in the mail swear to God at LEAST 8 times. Every time I tell him "You need to do this" My name isn't on that title, it's HIS personal bank account I can't do this one for him. I've left these papers sitting by his work stuff with notes saying "Hey fill me out and turn me in!!" It's been probably 3 months of me constantly reminding him to do this. He knows where the bills sit, he knows I've said it a million times and get this, he works in a building that *Gasp* HAS OUR BANK IN IT!! He would've just had to take it into work one day and walk down at lunch to sign some stuff.. Instead now we get to make a trip to the DMV for something and pay more to our bank. I'm not gonna lie.. I don't understand a damn thing the bank wanted us to do or I would've forged that shit and taken it in myself.. I shouldn't have to baby this man. He's a grown up. Being awake and signing papers shouldn't be a problem! I'm so angry with him right now. I'm sleep deprieved and grumpy and I know this post is long, but damnit I needed to get that out.