Why don't you create a joint FB account? Then you can both add who you want to, and if there is anyone either one of you aren't comfortable with, just don't add them to your account. My husband and I now have a joint FB account, and it's actually a lot easier! We weren't having any problems or anything, we just decided since we were always checking each others accounts (and since most of our friends were mutual) it simplified things. This is just an idea so you don't loose all contact with your family and friends. And, since it's also his account he won't be questioning who you're friends with or whatever.
Quoting mommiecassie:
Why don't you create a joint FB account? Then you can both add who you want to, and if there is anyone either one of you aren't comfortable with, just don't add them to your account. My husband and I now have a joint FB account, and it's actually a lot easier! We weren't having any problems or anything, we just decided since we were always checking each others accounts (and since most of our friends were mutual) it simplified things. This is just an idea so you don't loose all contact with your family and friends. And, since it's also his account he won't be questioning who you're friends with or whatever.
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Quoting mommiecassie:Why don't you create a joint FB account? Then you can both add who you want to, and if there is anyone either one of you aren't comfortable with, just don't add them to your account. My husband and I now have a joint FB account, and it's actually a lot easier! We weren't having any problems or anything, we just decided since we were always checking each others accounts (and since most of our friends were mutual) it simplified things. This is just an idea so you don't loose all contact with your family and friends. And, since it's also his account he won't be questioning who you're friends with or whatever.
I had to delete my FB to save my marriage. My DH did it voluntarily after I did. Honestly, I don't miss it that much, I miss talking to some of my friends and family but I can call them. I kind of feel better knowing that so many people don't have so much access to my life. Especially people I really didn't care for that much.
I really like the idea of a joint account I think I might just do that. Thank u ladies
Quoting HKing01:In my relationship, if our trust was that bad with each other, I would end it.
I can understand the myspace & changing the cell phone #. But you can unfriend anyone you don't agree with on your friends list ... or the joint account sounds like a great idea. My son & his wife have one of those; actually it's her account, but he has access to it and uses it also - just signs his name when he post something. But, there does seem as if there are a bit of some trust issues that need to be worked on.
am i the only want that feels like this?.?
- Mommy2BeAt15
on Jan. 11, 2011 at 11:24 AM