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Who are you first

Posted by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:11 PM
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Are you a mother or wife first?
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by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:11 PM
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ShannaBee
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:22 PM
Wife for now! But kids come first since they can't take care of themselves.
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CameronsMommy23
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:22 PM
A mother! Kids are dependent on us for guidance, protection, nurturing, & basic needs. Our husbands need love, companionship, & other things but they can take care of themselves. (For the most part lol)
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Love2BaMom77
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:23 PM

I'm a mommy first and foremost right now I have a three year old.  Hubby does his 6-8 hours at work when he's not deployed then he comes home and decompresses in front of his computer til he decides to go to bed.  House work comes between mommy times. 

NESmith63
by Member on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:23 PM
I'm both! But I guess a mother more because my children depend on me 100%
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OliviaW.
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:24 PM

A mama, I have 2 kids under the age of 2.

carinyosa99
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:25 PM

Wife, then mother.  I was a wife before I was a mother.

V.Dubbya
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:26 PM
That's how I feel...

Quoting NESmith63:

I'm both! But I guess a mother more because my children depend on me 100%
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KimNJJMommy
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:26 PM

I'm a wife first, but it feels like I'm a mother first considering how young my babies are.  My heart lies with my DH because without him.... there would be no babies =)

daydreaminmom
by on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:26 PM

Mother always and forever. Men can come and go in my life but my children are forever and my SO agrees with this theory.

EMMYBEARSMOMMY
by Member on Jan. 13, 2011 at 9:27 PM

mother

 

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