I was reading all the responses in the "survey" thread and was so encouraged by all the people who consider themselves to be "happy". I was one like the only one who couldn't come out and say "yes, I'm happy". I do not feel valued, heard or appreciated in my marriage. I was wondering if you do? Do you feel that your husband REALLY listens and hears you? Do you feel like he values you and appreciates you?
I do not intend for this to be a "bash my husband" thread. That isn't what I'm curious about. But, honestly, after 14 years of being with my husband I don't think he does these things and I don't think its something that will ever change. Our marriage isn't "bad" but at the same time I don't think its "good" either. Things could be so much worse but they could be better, too.