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How do you feel about the strip club???

Posted by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:37 PM
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So my husband just turned 21 and his dad asked him and his brother in laws to go to the strip club this saturday.  I recently had my second miscarriage and its really taken a toll on him. I want him to go out and have a good night but i cant help but feel weird about the strip club. Should I let him go and not make a big deal out of it or should I be the nagging wife that wont let him do anything?  Please help me!!! Lol 

by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:37 PM
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KimberlySnipes
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:39 PM
It depends. Do you trust him and do you trust his dad and brothers?
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Mrs.Jolly
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:40 PM
When me and dh got married my dad wanted tn take him to a strip club i dont like anything like that and i said no
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toria2316
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:41 PM

I deff. trust him. I know his dad will pay for him to get a lap dance. That makes me uncomfortable.  But whats the worst that could happen? I feel silly for being so insecure. 

sunnymommy122
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:44 PM

I kind of think it's weird that a father and son would go to a strip club together, but that's just me.  If you are okay with him going then what is the problem?  I personally, would not want my DH going to a strip club unless it was for a bachelor's party or something. 

tadeba
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:45 PM

Let him go.

mommy259
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:45 PM

I can't really answer this question for you because both me and DH feel strip clubs are not the place for married couples!!!

mrs.pyle
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:46 PM

go with him!

Momma2Imo
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:46 PM
It depends on you your dh and your beliefs together :)
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mommy259
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:46 PM

If you ok with him going but not comfortable about him getting a lap dance just let him know you don't mind him going but you would prefer that he gets no lap dances!!

Quoting toria2316:

I deff. trust him. I know his dad will pay for him to get a lap dance. That makes me uncomfortable.  But whats the worst that could happen? I feel silly for being so insecure. 


singergirlstar
by on Jan. 28, 2011 at 2:47 PM

I would not feel right about it and would not let my husband go. I know this is just me but, I would feel like he's cheating.

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