The two really don't work! For the past 6-7 months I've lived in NM while my husband lived in the Denver area of Colorado and not being able to see him for months at a time was very difficult... especialy while I was pregnant and we were worried he wouldn't be able to be there for our daughter's birth!
I can finally say we are at and end to the distance. I'm now in Colorado Springs which is just an hour away and will officially be living with my husband again as of March 1st!!
Just wanted to share the excitment and open up a place for other women who have been in this situation to post. I know this happens to a lot of military wives and it is so, so hard!