My Dh has a hard time showing affection. It was really bothering me so I talked to him the other night. I told him that it made me feel sad that he couldn't even take a second out of his day to give me a hug or a kiss. If I'm not seeking out attention, I don't get it. And the CRAZY thing is, I am one of those girls that don't even need a lot of attention. Just a little bit here and there would be great. I was starting to feel like he wasn't in love with me anymore, that he didn't feel that romantic pull towards me.... you know... pretty much the whole pity me thing. Well he listened very intently and actually seemed surprised that I was feeling this way. He said he loved me very much and that the last thing he ever wanted was to make me feel like he didn't. He said he just gets so caught up in the day to day duties that he has that he forgets to make time for me. He promised to work on it, so that's good. It really meant a lot to me that he took my feelings seriously because I was afraid I was being a nutcase, lol. Do any of you have husbands that aren't so great with the affectionate side of marriage?