Changes

[ShannaBee]

It's a rumor that couples change after marriage. Did your relationship, you, or DH change? Or is everything the same?

[mrs.pyle]

no everything is the same, the only difference is we have the same last name. i do hear people get lazy with appearance 

[billssweety]

We have been married for 20 years, yes we have changed, any person that doesn't change in 20 years has some serious issues.  Through it all our love is stronger, more dependable, more pliable, and just plain more!

[Danielle-Lo-La]

only change with us is we had a baby... granted, that is a life changing event but our relationship is as strong as ever.

[LoveMYtwo3582]

changed almost immediately....more him than me at first....it was almost like I have you so why do I have to try any more kinda deal.  Because he changed so did I.  We became incredibly distant and are finally both putting forth the effort to make our marriage healthy.

[Armywife1998]

 I would say over the years we have changed. The changes did not happen all of the sudden but as we have gotten older we as individuals and as a couple have changed.

[ingrid198]

the only thing that changed was our sex life haha

[ShannaBee]

DH isn't as affectionate and he's gotten lazy about helping me around the house. Things have changed a little but not drastically.

[Kathy-PSPR]

This.

Quoting billssweety:

We have been married for 20 years, yes we have changed, any person that doesn't change in 20 years has some serious issues.  Through it all our love is stronger, more dependable, more pliable, and just plain more!