Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Love & Marriage Love & Marriage

Hubby says...

Posted by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 5:33 PM
  • 16 Replies
I told my DH he makes me feel like I'm worthless and he says if u feel that way then step up ur game... Ugh I know what it means but I don't know what he wants me to do to step it up I'm mean I don't work or go to school maybe he wants me to do that I'm starting school soon but I feel like I'm always going to feel this way
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 5:33 PM
Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Replies (1-10):
Strega
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 6:00 PM

Wow.. That's definitely not a good response to throw at you. In my opinion if he's making you feel worthless, he is the one who needs to step up the game.


wedding website

chaslee
by Bronze Member on Feb. 8, 2011 at 6:03 PM

Step up to the game? In response to how he makes you feel?  Exactly what does that mean?  Ask him what he means by that and then tell him where to shove it.  Sorry.... probably not to helpful.

momma_814
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 6:04 PM

That sucks... I think he should tell you that you are Priceless not that you need to step up your game. Sorry you feel that way. I hope you start feeling better soon. I hope school goes great and that you start to see that you are not worthless and that what ever funk your in is only temporary. Remember that after the storm comes a beautiful rainbow :) Good vibes and hugs going your way.

busybaytownmom
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 6:05 PM
Yep.


Quoting Strega:

Wow.. That's definitely not a good response to throw at you. In my opinion if he's making you feel worthless, he is the one who needs to step up the game.


Posted on CafeMom Mobile
Embers88
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 6:10 PM

Wow, what a jerky thing to say.

Armywife1998
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 6:54 PM

 I posted to another discussion you posted how to "step up your game.  This is yalls first deployment, there are things that you dont understand and never will about being over there. you wont understand because he cant discuss it with you or he feels ashamed to discuss it.

Also the only person that can make you feel worthless are those that you allow to make you feel that way. You are stronger than you think you are. Start doing the things I suggested earlier and complain less to him when you do talk to him and see what happens.

skinnymama86
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 8:13 PM
Quoting Armywife1998:

 I posted to another discussion you posted how to "step up your game.  This is yalls first deployment, there are things that you dont understand and never will about being over there. you wont understand because he cant discuss it with you or he feels ashamed to discuss it.


Also the only person that can make you feel worthless are those that you allow to make you feel that way. You are stronger than you think you are. Start doing the things I suggested earlier and complain less to him when you do talk to him and see what happens.




Okay I will and thanks so much
skinnymama86
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 8:17 PM
Quoting momma_814:

That sucks... I think he should tell you that you are Priceless not that you need to step up your game. Sorry you feel that way. I hope you start feeling better soon. I hope school goes great and that you start to see that you are not worthless and that what ever funk your in is only temporary. Remember that after the storm comes a beautiful rainbow :) Good vibes and hugs going your way.




Thanks so much girl I hope so too and he's not really that type of man he's like if he tells me that I know I have him in my hand ad I can do whatever I want and get away with it bc I know he'll still be there he's so insecure and loves to give me tough love to make me a strong person he tells me I'm a grown ass woman I don't need to be baby and he's not going to baby me :( he is an asshole and he knows it that's the sad part
B-FigNewton
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 8:22 PM

Wow. I would have punched him in the teeth.

Ohio.SAHMof2
by on Feb. 8, 2011 at 8:28 PM

 Oh sweetie im sorry. the saying comes to my mind "you cant love someone unless you love yourself". Maybe he didn't think it is someting you are doing wrong with him. But maybe he is thinking there is something you might want to do to yourself. I know when we get tax return in I'm going to get my sexy back:) I'm spoiling myself. Whens the last time you spoiled yourself girlie?

Add your quick reply below:
You must be a member to reply to this post.
Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)