Hi! I'm new to this group and desperately in need of a neutral person's advice. I've been married going on 2 years and we have a 4 month baby. DH had to travel for work recently and just before he left he told me he was not happy with the arrangement and regrets us getting married when we did. I asked if he regrets marrying me but he says it's the timing he regrets. We have been talking on phone and email and he still says he wishes we hadn't gotten married when we did. I've made so many sacrifices and it's even cost me my job because I took days off to take care of him when he had an accident and I helped pay rent and bills probably 60% of the time we've been together. He'll be away for some months and I'm just feeling like I'm trapped in a marriage where someone doesn't really love me. It breaks my heart every time he says he regrets it. The other day he told me we should move on for the sake of the baby and what's done is done and should carry on with the relationship. Am I being unreasonable to think I should leave him?I honestly feel used and totally unloved
We've been talking and though he didn't apologize for what he said he still says he wants to be with me and raise our son together. I really want to walk away from the issue but it still hurts so bad whenever I recall the words. I also feel like I'll be stuck in a marriage that I'll never be sure if it's based on genuine love or not.
I mailed him the other day and told him to tell me what he likes or loves about me. What would you do to 'test' if he really loves you if you were in my position