My DH and I have been fighting non-stop and are talking about divorce because neither of us can stand it anymore. I really love him and do not want to separate. His actions lately have been unacceptable and he has been blatantly disrespecting me. For example, I work full time and he is a full time student and lives the life of one! We have two DD age 4 and 3. He goes out drinking at least 2-3 times a week, if not more and at least once a month he doesn't come home til the next afternoon. I know that he is not cheating on me, he is just out with his younger single friends that have the energy to actually stay up all night! However, I am not innocent at all! I fight back and tend to start arguments over petty situations. The more I think about how childish my actions have been, the more I think this is all my fault. If I didn't nag he wouldn't want to drink as much, but I can't help it. I'm exhausted and I never get a break! It has been almost a year since I have gone out alone for more than a trip to Target!
Why can't I let the little things go? Why can't I just not care about what he is doing and let him be the fool? The stress and resentment is making me physically sick. I feel totally lost and can't talk to anyone about it because none of my close friends are married or are in relationships that don't have problems like this!
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