Okay.. my hubby deployed Jan 1st and has been in country since Jan 20th... In november as he was going back and forth before he left I had found a text from another woman.. I don't know if he really could have met up with her or not, but anyway.. after I freaked out he told me he wasn't sure if he was still in love with me anymore. I don't know if anybody has gone through this or if this is normal predeployment issues but I am at a loss. I have no friends that are going through this or anything. I just wanted to know if this is more common than I have heard. I am doing my best we still talk as much as possible and he basically said he isn't sure if doing the work in the relationship is worth it or not. He's felt neglected the passed couple years-our life has been nuts and I do admit I did neglect him but I'm willing to work on everything and take responsibility for all that has happened things I have done or didn't do etc.
Sorry this is long I would love help, advice, anything..
Thank you so much