I used to work full time before having children. I worked part time up until three years ago, when I had my last child. Now DH thinks that since he's the one working, he calls the shots. Things are busy at work, so he's working late. This leaves me with the kids, shuttling everyone to various practices, games, activities. I want to be supportive, but I wish he would sit down with me as a partner in the marriage and let me know he needs to work late, etc. because it affects me and the kids. It's like I'm just a housewife and should just deal with it. Any time I bring up the need for more communication, he gets ticked off and walks off. I've even tried writing him a letter about needing to feel heard and he read it and said nothing. I'm at my wits end with feeling dismissed and also lonely. Any ideas?