My husband left while I was asleep. I knew he was going, and I'm told he told me bye, but I don't remember...anyway, he left 6hours ago with his friend to some group thing for their poker tournament.. I text him about an hour after he left and asked where he was, he said he was at the tournament, just arriving. I just called him and he is at his friends house because apparently this tournament was on Thursdays, not today. So he's been gone for 6 hours when I thought he was at one place, and he has been at another all day. He never told me, probably never would have if I hadn't called him. The biggest dilemma I find is when his friend came to get him, he had his 1 year old son. I don't think kids can go to these things. I don't think he ever intended on going anywhere but to the friends house, and didn't want to tell me because I don't like the guy and he was afraid I woudnt want him to go... what do I do? Should I avoid the argument and assume it was innocent? Or do I ask him and end up arguing all night? Or just pretend nothing happened and play nice?
My son is 5 weeks old, I think I may have PPD, that's why I'm asking, I apparently don't always think things through or logically. I need help.
on Mar. 18, 2011 at 8:08 PM