Hi folks, I used to post here a lot a few years ago about my mother and sister in law issues and I always remember that everyone from all walks gave good perspectives on life.
My husbands friend is getting married later this year and I am certain that he is going to have a wild bachelor party. I know it will be excessive drinking and I know there will be strippers there because the best friends planning the party are like that.
I do not believe in bachelor parties, there is no 'last night of freedom' if you feel like you need a night to bang hookers or watch 1/2 naked or naked women grind all over you then you ma not be ready to get married anyway. My hubby did not have a bachelor party and he's never made it an issue, but all of a sudden he is so ready to go to this one??
I may be a square or whathave you but I just can not see any valid reason to have your husband at a party yukking it up with strippers and as the alcohol flows so do good sense and inhibitions and I just figure, why even go there?
A friend of mine says it is a trust issue with me (I agree) but my husband gives me little to no drama, I've never had a woman call me or had a reason to call another woman, I am quite comfortable in my marriage and more than a trust issue, I find it to be more of an appropriate vs inappropriate issue with me above trust/distrust.
Like the visual of it, my husband, married man, father of my children drooling and letting some sleeze stripper dance all over the place. Not to mention any tips he would give them ...What is right about that?