Need advise about DH & his female boss/partner....*Update*
My DH & his boss work hand-in-hand with each other for the small company they have. He's not technically a "partner" but she treats him like one w/ all the responsibilties etc but not the pay. Lol. K?
Well, ever since he started working for her, she has always come up w/ excuses to pay him a few days to a week late. He got his money but then she would be in the hole again the next time to pay him etc etc. It has gotten sooooo bad with him & added responsibilities b/c a co-worker quit b/c of money. Still, no pay increase for an added job he has to do now. :(
I'm so hurt & crying b/c we have a DD that had to give up gymnastics due to these money issues. It just breaks my heart but I know sometimes cutting costs helps alot & so on! When I talk to DD about the money & how much she owes him, he blows up in my face verbally saying he's getting it, and getting it. Buuuuuut, when he told me today that she hasn't paid him for almost 4 weeks (this Fri), I almost lost my lunch. I asked him what was the hold up and why so long and he yelled at me again saying he'll figure it out w/ her & she keeps promising to pay him. Huh??!! K, maybe he's having "man syndrome" & being the man of the house etc & has alot of feelings going thru him but his boss also knows that we are pregnant & due in a few months, so ever little bit counts w/ us.
Yesterday & today are perfect examples..... She wanted to go talk w/ some clients etc & he went w/ her )like their always together)....another day...LOL. Anyways, while I was dealing w/ a 10yr old getting 4 teeth worked on, they come pulling up in her truck laughing, smoking cig's, etc in my face. I smile but turn the other way. She obviously had a conscience b/c she called my DH later & asked him if I was mad at her..... FOR WHAT??? Unless you feel guilty about something, then why ask!!!! So then this morning, she calls him & they have to go out AGAIN.... but she asks if he can drive his truck... I told him we have NO money for gas if she's not going to pay you. Soooo....he blew up on me again. I just watched him sit outside for 30 mins waiting on her so he wouldn't be around me.
*I'm Crying* I have no idea what is going on w/ our household & marriage anymore!!! I feel like he likes being w/ her b/c they're always laughing etc w/ each other & not me anymore...... I'm so lost & crushed inside.
He came home upset w/ me b/c he said I'm an embarrasment to him. I guess he said that b/c when we talked earlier, I told him to "Grow a pair" & tell her regardless of his "PRIDE" & demand his money or I will call her myself (since we know each other & our families) & ask what is going on & I'll tell her about our money situation. He didn't like that so much & said he's done w/ me & wants a divorce & for me to find someone that has "A pair". Ohhhh boy!