

Quoting ashwa:
Wow! You were actually brave enough to say what I was thinking about this group! It's too negative in here! My marriage is great! Of course none are perfect!

Quoting hotmommytutu:While I do agree w/ you I have to add that maybe they post it on here just to vent. Sometimes just getting a sympathetic ear is all a woman needs.
I mean, afterall, is this not what cafemom or these groups are for?


Quoting firenice2011:
It's just so frustrating...lol! My marraige is far from easy, but jeez, I married him the way he was...for better or WORSE. So many women forget their vows when things get tough. Sad...
Quoting ashwa:
Wow! You were actually brave enough to say what I was thinking about this group! It's too negative in here! My marriage is great! Of course none are perfect!
I like to play devils advocate.......in my case, that marriage certificate changed it all. My husband and I have been together for 14 yrs now and married for 9 but, certain things along the path of life changed my husband everytime. Is he the man I married? Nope. Granted, I'm probably not the woman he married anymore either but, I did not find out a lot of things until after we were married w/ 2 kids and had moved to Canada from Florida........by then I was in it for the long haul.......regardless of who he was when we married.

Most of the posts ive seen have been dealing with abuse or cheating. I would have to give up on that note. IMO everyone on here needs to vent on occasion and usually if your marriage is going great then you have no need for support at that point. so posts wont be made about that too often.

- firenice2011
on May. 21, 2011 at 7:39 PM