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I'm going to lose it UPDATE

Posted by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 2:49 AM
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 I'm 7 months pregnant and DH has done NOTHING lately but critique me. The way i look and the way i do my job as a SAHM.

it's been really weird. so tonight....since i can't sleep...i snooped through his phone since he has a porn habit. well i was relived to see there was no porn. BUT what i did find was that he found a 5'9" blonde, toned woman named brandi on craigslist in the "tearaputic services" category.....and her picture...wasn't that of a professional massage therapist. it was a girl in a tiny tank top and jeans on the railroad tracks.

she listed her phone number on the ad....to call for rates....

and guess what??? HE CALLED HER! he was on the phone with her for 3 minutes. and then she called him BACK and they spoke for another 2 minutes. around that same time i had sent him a text message. and it wasn't until a couple hours later that he even responded to my text.

sound fishy to you???

**** i discovered he's using his old work email adress to have a secret FB account.....and he's been hooking up with some girl that apparently lives around here.

by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 2:49 AM
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mcclellanlass
by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 2:51 AM

Very fishy. Call him out of it. Sad you felt you had to snoop through his phone. 

Mommy_Burge
by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 2:59 AM

 It is sad. I was so relieved too not to find porn...until i found that. And then the history from all the previous days has been deleted.....so i know he's been up to no good....he doesn't just randomly delete it for no reason....

 

Quoting mcclellanlass:

Very fishy. Call him out of it. Sad you felt you had to snoop through his phone. 

 

cassielc84
by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:00 AM

Yeah I would loose it too.. I would confront him.. I mean damn man!! You have a baby on the way!! 

matheson7
by Member on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:01 AM

 Yes, that is one of the first signs of cheating.

matheson7
by Member on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:03 AM

 Also if I were you I would get tested, you can't risk getting stds now.

unsuspected
by Gold Member on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:03 AM

Fishy?

Moby DICK ... beyond fishy.

You need to confront him, and have some back up when you do it because you're going to need some support. 

I'm sorry Mama.  I was 7 months pregnant, with twins, when I caught my husgand up to no good.  I'm sorry.


Mommy_Burge
by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:12 AM

 He's sleeping around. he created a fake facebook to get in touch with a woman who lives around here

 

BV88
by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:18 AM
Sounds bad.
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BV88
by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:20 AM
Omg. Did you find FB messages or something?
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jess80
by on Aug. 19, 2011 at 3:22 AM
That sucks.sorry
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