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Husband watching porn?

Posted by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:13 AM
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Do you consider it cheating? 

Do you think its wrong ?

What is your take on your hubby watching porno?

-My husband actually used to or probably still do watch it, i don't remember when he's started? But one time i caught him when he was on his phone, i confronted him about it, and he promised me he'd never watch it again, but after that went downhill, and i kept catching him. Now he says he doesn't anymore...but idk he was pretty addicted so i don't think i believe him on that. I think its considering cheating, he's watching other females doing it. It makes me feel i'm not good enough for him anymore, that he has to go watch other people having sex. Its soo wrong, makes me look at him differently, if he can't stop watching it. I honestly think he has a problem. 

Advice?


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The_Doodle
by Bronze Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:18 AM

I don't consider it cheating. I am happy porn is around. If I tried to keep up with my hubby's libido, I wouldn't be able to walk straight. And FWIW, I don't think half of the men whose wives think they are addicted to porn actually are. I think they're just lazy and get caught too much.

katieabril
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:22 AM

omg i have the same problem!! i think its just gross really, idk.. they always say oh they have stopped but its not true, hopefully mine has stopped, he looks at blow jobs not like the peeople actualy doin it soo idk, and it was b/c i didnt do that to him as much, so sometimes theres a reason why their looking at that crap.. you should ask him about it, i've decided to make are own videos and take pictures and stuff hopefully it works..

shoot4thestars
by Silver Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:22 AM

It doesn't bother me.  My DH used to watch it lot, but I don't think he watches it anymore, if he watches it at all.  I don't think he barely has time to think to him self lately..lol

holmes212
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:23 AM

i dont like porn at all its not allowed in this house unless its something we do together which barley ever happends weve been together for almost 7 years and MAYBE watched it together 3 times

robertskids219
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:27 AM
NO, my husband watches it all the time, hell ill watch it with him sometimes. And ur husband is still watching it, aint no ands ifs or buts with that. I wouldnt worry to much about it. Its not like hes doing it to that person, he was probably just horny at the point lol.
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BonitaM
by Ruby Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:46 AM

I don't consider it cheating and I don't think it's wrong.  I actually introduced him to porn and enjoy watching it just as much as he does.  I'm not sure what to tell you since you don't know for sure if he's still watching it or not.  I guess, you just have to trust that he's being honest with you and not watching it.  

21Brook
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:49 AM

good luckmay that's his way of not cheating and he don't get enough of you.

mommyjenn84
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:50 AM
Do you consider it cheating?
Absolutly not

Do you think its wrong ?
No

What is your take on your hubby watching porno?
Doesnt matter, so do i... As long as there is honesty I dont mind
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amanda_mom89
by on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:50 AM
Yes my hubby watches porn. I watch porn. We watch porn together. I don't have a problem with it. Nothing wrong with a little alone time. :)
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LivinDeadGurl
by Bronze Member on Sep. 14, 2011 at 12:51 AM

No, I don't consider it cheating.

No, I don't think it is wrong.

I have no issue with my husband watching porn as long as it isn't a replacement for sex with me. If he were to be turning me down, but watching porn instead, we would have a problem. 

I have no real advice for you. Personally, I would treat it as if he really was cheating on me if I considered it cheating. I mean, how would you handle this if it was another woman and not porn? If it is the same thing in your eyes, then it should warrent the same reaction.

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