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What would you change?

Posted by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:01 PM
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Is there anything you would or wouldn't do before you got married?
Or as a couple before you became parents?
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candygirl369
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:08 PM

Travel some. We really didn"t get a honeymoon......

BaileynMe
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:09 PM
I'd finish college first.
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ishie4ever
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:11 PM
We didn't get a honeymoon either. We just took our first vacation in October with our dear daughter. Honestly she's the reason we took a vacation. We took her to see my dear husband's dad and grandpa.
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MamaMendoza2631
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:15 PM

I would have taken time with him before we got married, had a longer engagement. If we did that I think we wouldn't be in the situation that we are in =)

biancalina20
by Bianca Lina on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:17 PM
Same here!!

Quoting MamaMendoza2631:

I would have taken time with him before we got married, had a longer engagement. If we did that I think we wouldn't be in the situation that we are in =)

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Anryan
by Platinum Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:19 PM
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nope because the things i did/we did is what made us who we are today.

candygirl369
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:19 PM

I don't you exact situation but I feel ya....I had my daughter a month after we got married....No real alone time...makes it hard on your relationship.

Quoting MamaMendoza2631:

I would have taken time with him before we got married, had a longer engagement. If we did that I think we wouldn't be in the situation that we are in =)


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candygirl369
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:21 PM

We always say we are gonna take one day soon.

Quoting ishie4ever:

We didn't get a honeymoon either. We just took our first vacation in October with our dear daughter. Honestly she's the reason we took a vacation. We took her to see my dear husband's dad and grandpa.


0667b1faa486674c14291c9c22aa4118.jpg picture by Candygirl369519924b00e8de502e69b1225ebf4c84a.jpg picture by Candygirl369

MamaMendoza2631
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:38 PM

We got married when I was 3 months pregnant, so we'd get his insurance(military), then when my daughter was 5-6months I found out I was pregnant with our son. We have had our ups and downs, break-ups, make-ups and after 5yrs of marriage its going to pieces. That's why I say maybe if we didn't rush into marriage things would have been better.

Quoting candygirl369:

I don't you exact situation but I feel ya....I had my daughter a month after we got married....No real alone time...makes it hard on your relationship.

Quoting MamaMendoza2631:

I would have taken time with him before we got married, had a longer engagement. If we did that I think we wouldn't be in the situation that we are in =)



BonitaM
by Ruby Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 9:46 PM

I would have slept around a lot more before marriage and after getting married I would have gone to school and gotten my green card before becoming parents.  

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