im going crazy and i just need some1 thats been through bad relationships oh my gosh whats wrong with meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
everything guys im too young for this much drama and stress the only good things coming outta of this is my baby
my life is a reck me n this guy clay were dating and now im pregnant and we really did love each other but he cheats and lies and he told he wasnt married anymore but he is and we broke up and he is trying to be with his wife again and his wife tells me daily how much of a wasted life space i am and then tonight he told me he wants to be a family with me b4 our son comes and work everything out but the 3 months his been gone ive been talking to this guy jason and his smart funny he doesnt lie and he loves me but he lives with this girl sam hes know for 9 years and he said he doesnt know what to do cause he cant pick in between me and her and i feel bad cause i blow him off today to talk to clay and i duno what to do im going crazy
my life is a reck me n this guy clay were dating and now im pregnant and we really did love each other but he cheats and lies and he told he wasnt married anymore but he is and we broke up and he is trying to be with his wife again and his wife tells me daily how much of a wasted life space i am and then tonight he told me he wants to be a family with me b4 our son comes and work everything out but the 3 months his been gone ive been talking to this guy jason and his smart funny he doesnt lie and he loves me but he lives with this girl sam hes know for 9 years and he said he doesnt know what to do cause he cant pick in between me and her and i feel bad cause i blow him off today to talk to clay and i duno what to do im going crazy
what should i doooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
For right now you should start thinking of yourself, and child.. When are you due? who do you live with? do you work?how old are you? are you on assistance/food stamps.. can you get housing? He's garbage and sorry to say that to you but have seen it TOO many times, your his toy... and thats it honey sorry!! BUT!! At this point you need to get yourself together, and established mentally before any of this shit!! Once you do I say contact clay and take him for child support since he's being such a dickhead.. he will prob deny the baby so get a dna test .. then it will prove hes dada... If you ever need message me... and i can help ya the best i can.. Actually I was in the same situation!! Met a man fell in love, found out he was married LEFT HIM, (We were both military) went on a 6 month deployment, came back he had paperwork that he filed for divorce, took me two months to accept him back..was with him for the year got pregnant found out divorce never happened.. he lied cheated, and we went through this for 8 years.. honey!! trust me CLAY will never change .. I waited 8 years.. Then i finally had enough of his shit,,, left him, got custody of DS and now 3 years later I am married, happy and have a wonderful dh.. BTW my sperm donor hasnt contacted my son for 2 and 1/2 years... see i have so much to talk about ..
i doubt anyone can really help
- mylifemyworld13
on Feb. 11, 2012 at 5:11 AM