Hello, my name is Cassandra and im 25yrs old i have been dating this guy for about 2 years and we recently broke up. "He is 38 yrs old . I am heart broken because i really love him. Everything seemed as thou things were great until sometime in NOV when he got a DWI. That DWI intervened with his work and his job is on the line now. He doesnt know if he wil lose his job. I feel like he is maybe depressed or something.. He told me that he thought that maybe we should take a break. He has no children and i have a 4 year old son, that i think he adores. he helps me with him while im at work if i cant find a sitter, sometime. i just feel sad , i some times call him and stuff because i dont understand why he wants out, i told him if he had someone else to just tell me . honesty is all that i want, but he tells me no that he doesnt. i tell him why does he want this and he tells me because i have other things to worry about my job is on the line, all i think about is that 24/7. i ddont know why is is mean, im so hurt . i dont know what to do? What do you think is going on? is he depressed? or does he not want to be with me?
ADDITIONAL INFORMATION>>>>TODAY
Today Feb 12 2012 i went to church and after chirch on my way out i felt someone poke me and poke me i ingnored it . i was going toward my car and my ex was behind me. He asked me if i wanted to go to lunch, i couldnt say no so i went. Why did he invite me lunch if he wants me to leave him alone, and makes me feel like he dont care about me anymore?
Thats right , you are so understanding. i think i was already frustating him., sigh, he was already talking to me a little rude, like he didnt or doesnt care about me,. i think i already lost him completly.
That is true, i hope he does come around if he really does love us. i just hope it isnt to late, i hope i didnt frustrate him completely, sigh. already. im going to have to make the best of Valentines Day, just me and my son. i hope he thinks of us.
i doubt anyone can really help
- cass_01
on Feb. 12, 2012 at 1:57 AM