Heart-Broken, need some advice. Additional Information for today

[cass_01]

DDITIONAL INFORMATION>>>>TODAY

Today Feb 12 2012 i went to church and after chirch on my way out i felt someone poke me and poke me i ingnored it . i was going toward my car and my ex was behind me. He asked me if i wanted to go to lunch, i couldnt say no so i went. Why did he invite me lunch if he wants me to leave him alone, and makes me feel like he dont care about me anymore?

[Chelsey191]

I would be very cautious of him. Sounds like he may want the freedoms of a single man but the benefits of a commited one. If you let him walk on you he will. If it was me I would be making it clear that either he wants me or he doesnt. No halfway, in between or sometimes getting together for anything. I learnt this lesson the hard way. I used to convince myself that because I loved the man I was with, I would rather have him sometimes then not at all. I was never happy with a sometimes relationship and eventually I realised I had to walk away from it. It was hard and very heartbreaking but in the long run, it was the smart choice and now I am very happy.

[Monsita]

Stay strong and confidence!  It is making him curious to see you sure of yourself and not broken!  Stay self-center, secure of yourself IT IS ATRACTING HIM.....but do not fall into his game of not taking you seriously!Keep up, the great job of making him WANTING YOU!