Valentines day NOT gift TMI *update!!

[mrinewfe21]

Soo since tomorrow is valentines day and my hubby works and I have my aunts funeral we decided to celebrate valentines day today an well I woke him up with a big breakfast bacon eggs sausage toast n oj and of course a gift for him a box of his favorite chocolates and a card expecting that he would go out today and gets something well I was WRONG! I'm getting absolutely NOTHING! He told me he couldn't afford to buy me anything but yet hey can go spend extra money on a case of beer and he wonders why I'm in a weird mood today! No but because my washer busted we are over athens parents doing laundry all day and he comes downstaires and says Happy Valentines day and we have a quickie yes ladies SEX was my gift! I'm a little annoyed that he thinks having sex is as good as a cheap 10.00 gift from Kmart and he wonders why I'm acting weird now!
Sorry I had to vent

UPDATE*
So hubby asked if he could make me a card HELLO! That would be better then nothing! So he's sitting here next to me making me a card

[emerald2]

Let him know how you feel. I would bring it to his attention sit down and talk to him.

[Mariamoran86]

Omg i kno what u mean the past three years its been like tht for me i get him a gift nice dinner or breakfast and he doesnt even say happy valentnes day and he says its silly tht i get upset but i think i have a right to be upset so this year i decided to not even celebrate it i will be gettin my daghters v day candy but im not gettin him anythin and not expectin anythin : )

[i.heart.myboys]

Tell him how you feel. I personally don't like doing gifts for this reason. If he gives me something than that's all on him. But people expect to much out of a hallmark holiday

[mrinewfe21]

I did tell him how I feel and all he can do is joke about it an say "well I'm getting you a new washer switch for you" that's worse then a friggin vaccume cleaner

Quoting emerald2:

Let him know how you feel. I would bring it to his attention sit down and talk to him.

[pinklove22]

sorry you feel like that....hubby was like that so i stopped getting him anything because then i would expect something so when is topped and i guess he noticed i wouldn't get him anything for any holiday he started getting me the gifts

[AlannaMaria]

Sorry... You should tell him how you feel.

[Miathenajane]

I'm sorry just being with love ones all that matters sometimes!

[mrinewfe21]

I don't expect anything but maybe a card or a stuffed animal from the dollar store or a box of chocolates from the dollar store but he told me how much the gift was that he wanted to buy me sono showed him a 10.00 ring at Kmart

Quoting i.heart.myboys:

Tell him how you feel. I personally don't like doing gifts for this reason. If he gives me something than that's all on him. But people expect to much out of a hallmark holiday

[findingserenity]

unfortunately I ordered him a valentine gift last week.arrived today, im so tempted to return it.my deceitful, lying husband.

[mrinewfe21]

O wow what happened if I can ask?

Quoting findingserenity:

unfortunately I ordered him a valentine gift last week.arrived today, im so tempted to return it.my deceitful, lying husband.