my hubby wants me to get my tubes tied but i am just not ready for that. we know we dont want any more kids right now. but in 5yrs? and it's a big change for a woman's body. i told him he should have his tubes tied. it's faster, easier and can be reversed fairly easy if we choose to have more kids later. then when i asked my dad about it he sided with my hubby. saying that when a man is "fixed" it changes their drive in life. what? i get it's a big change for both man and woman. right now i have an implant for birth control. but it's fixng to have to come out. so idk if i should get another one for 3yrs or one of us get fixed and not have to worry about it. so do u have ur tubes tied, ur hubby have his, or do u use birth control.