For those who are in open relationships, swingers, couples who engage in 3somes (mmf or ffm) and those in poly relationships..how does it work for u.. How do u allow urself to move past the jealousy? Do u ever feel he/she stays with u cuz u allow ur spouse the oppurtunity to have a relationship @ home but sex with more then u? And how does it work in ur relationship?
Seems perfect on paper but when u add emotion it goes to hell for most.
Okay my view/experience/thoughs...
When I was in college I had a b/f we had a 3some with his best friend (mmf) it was fun loved it!! I liked my bf cared for him but didn't love him so it was easy for us. My ex (father of daughter) always wanted a 3some (ffm) and I loved him and wouldn't do it, I just couldn't!! Until our relationship fell apart and I realized I didn't love him anymore is when I agreed to do one (he didn't know I didn't love him anymore-and was sticking to him cuz we had a kid, lasted 1 year loveless) ne-ways I realized that because my love was gone I was able to..(We didn't! No girl we both would b okay with) now that I'm deeply in love with my soul mate I couldn't even imagine making love to him with another women there and when we first started dating I brought it up. It's just not for him. So I'm secure in knowing he won't ever ask me or want it. I feel my love is too strong to let anyone into our love making... Not for me.. Tho I do dream of being with a women... Lol too bad my SO wouldn't allow a 1 on 1 session! Haha