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nervous about a threesome!

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Hi there ladies, my hubby and I are going to have a threesome with another female this weekend, he wants me to relax and have fun and just enjoy myself. We are going to go out and have a few drinks to loosen up and ease the nerves! I just am a little uneasy about this,I mean we have had threesomes before so I have had experience in it before, plus the girl is bisexual as well. So I just would like some encouragement to go through with this, I have been with him for 9 yrs and married for 6. Be nice please, helpful thanks

 

shrugging

by on Mar. 26, 2012 at 3:55 PM
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unsuspected
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 4:40 PM
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No 'helpful' advice from me.  And no apologies either.

I would take your hesitation as a sign of conscience and forewarning that you shouldn't do it.

But silly me, I took my marriage vows at face value. 

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Dragonmamas
by on Mar. 26, 2012 at 4:42 PM
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I have nothing nice to say :)

Melame68
by on Mar. 26, 2012 at 4:43 PM
I think if you are uneasy you should post pone. Don't go into it with negative feelings. It will only bring more negative feelings afterwards
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SylviaPerez
by New Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 4:46 PM

if you don't mind me asking does your hubby ever get jealous or you yourself get jealous?

Quoting SuperMom2433:

Ohh yay for you guys! Im bi and hubby and I have had a few threesomes but its been soooo long! Just relax lady. Youll have a lot of fun. Im jealous!! I want another threesome so bad!


MommyLehr
by Bronze Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 5:05 PM
Oh that's how I am. :-) but we don't know anyone close by... :-(


Quoting Luveasy:



Quoting MommyLehr:

Good luck. DH and I are looking for someone to have a threesome with... How did you meet her? How did you ask her to have a threesome? Lol


She is an old friend of ours, it just came up in the convo, shes bisexual more into girls then guys too


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SuperMom2433
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 5:13 PM
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Neither of us have gotten jealous. We have only done ffm threesome because I am NOT interested in any other men but my hubby. Its always been awesome for our sex life!


Quoting SylviaPerez:

if you don't mind me asking does your hubby ever get jealous or you yourself get jealous?


Quoting SuperMom2433:

Ohh yay for you guys! Im bi and hubby and I have had a few threesomes but its been soooo long! Just relax lady. Youll have a lot of fun. Im jealous!! I want another threesome so bad!



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SuperMom2433
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 5:14 PM
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You never know what their vows were. :-)


Quoting unsuspected:

No 'helpful' advice from me.  And no apologies either.

I would take your hesitation as a sign of conscience and forewaring that you shouldn't do it.

But silly me, I took my marriage vows at face value. 


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AlannaMaria
by Alanna on Mar. 26, 2012 at 5:16 PM
Hope all goes well!
mem82
by Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 5:29 PM
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Just a question for anyone who has done this and it's a serious question:)

How in the world does a threesome bring you closer? I just don't get it. I understand the kinky aspect of it, but I don't see how it can make a relationship stronger.

unsuspected
by Gold Member on Mar. 26, 2012 at 5:29 PM

tee hee ... funny.  :o)

Quoting SuperMom2433:

You never know what their vows were. :-)


Quoting unsuspected:

No 'helpful' advice from me.  And no apologies either.

I would take your hesitation as a sign of conscience and forewaring that you shouldn't do it.

But silly me, I took my marriage vows at face value. 



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